ON THE DOORPOSTS OF YOUR
HOUSE
Rabbi Ed Feinstein
Question: How and why do we put up a Mezuza
on our home?
Answer:
THE HOW:
Hanging a Mezuza on a Jewish home is a
fulfillment of the Torah's teaching, "You shall write
them [the words of the Shema Yisrael, our
declaration of loyalty and identity] on the doorposts of
your house and upon the gates [of your city]." The
Mezuza consists of a decorative container, within which is a
piece of hand-written parchment conaining the words of Shema
Yisrael. Remember: It's the words on that parchment that make it
a Mezuza. No matter how lovely, the container is just a
container!
The Mezuza is often decorated with the Hebrew
letter "Shin", after one of the names of God recorded
in the the Torah -- "Shaddai", which the rabbis of the
Talmud interpreted as an acronym for the phrase, Shomer
Delatot Yisrael, God -- the Protector of the Doorways of
Israel.
The Mezuza is placed on the right side
of the doorway as you walk into the house, at eye level
(about two-thirds the way up the door frame on most doors). The
Mezuza should be set at an angle, with the top tilting
inward -- into the house.
As you hang your Mezuza, recite these
blessing:
Baruch Ata Adonai Eloheynu Melech Ha-Olam,
Asher Kid-shanu B'mitzvotav, V'tzee-vanu, Lik-boa Mezuzah.
Blessed are You Adonai,
Ruler of the Universe, Who has sanctified us by your
commandments, and commanded us to afix a Mezuza upon our doorway.
Baruch Ata Adonai Eloheynu Melech Ha-Olam,
Sheh-hechiyanu V'key-eemanu V'hig-iyanu La'zman Ha-zeh.
Blessed are You Adonai,
Ruler of the Universe, Who has given us life, health and
strength, and enabled us to reach this moment.
Finally, we recite the Shema Yisrael:
Shema Yisrael Adonai Eloheynu Adonai Ehad
Hear O' Israel, Adonai
is our God, Adonai is One.
You shall love Adonai your God with all your
heart, with all your soul and with all your might. These words
which I command you this day shall be in your heart. You shall
teach them diligently to your children. You shall speak them at
home and away, night and day. You shall bind them as a sign upon
your hand, and they shall by frontlets between your eyes. You
shall write them upon the doorposts of your homes and upon the
gates of your city. Then you will remember and fulfill all My
commandments, and be holy before your God.
THE WHY:
The Mezuza is a reminder -- that this is a
Jewish home, that a Jewish home harbors a special spirit, and
that we are responsible for creating and maintaining that
spirit. "Where does God dwell?" the Hasidic Master
taught his disciples, "Wherever we let Him in."
The first word of the Mezuza text is the first
word of the Shema -- Listen! Listening is the most
important element of a loving home. Listen to what is said, and
to what is unsaid. Listen to the words, and the world of feelings
beneath the words. Listen. Even when you're impatient, tired,
distracted, preoccupied...Listen.
The first letter of "Shema"
is Shin, which has the sound, "SHHHH". The very first
part of listening just to be quiet -- stop talking, shouting,
complaining, protesting -- leave room for an other. And more:
Find an inner quiet, so that the voices and needs of those we
love can find their way into our ears and our hearts. So that we
can share with one another.
Many Jews believe the Mezuza provides a home
with sort of superstitious protection. I don't think they're
entirely wrong. It won't help you against burglary (I prefer
ADP), fire, earthquake or flood. But against those threats which
destroy most homes in our community -- cold callousness,
hard-heartedness, bitter alienation, the withering of loving
commuication, sharing and growing together. Against these
threats, a well-used Mezuza provides some real insurance.
On your way into the house tonight, observe an
old Jewish custom: stop in the doorway, touch the Mezuza, kiss
your fingers, and then enter a home of loving listening.