Frequently Asked Questions:

What is a Havurah?

A Havurah is a group of 10-12 couples or families or up to 20 individuals who get together on a regular basis in members' homes to study together, to socialize and to celebrate Jewish life. All members of the Havurah make a commitment to the group to meet regularly once a month.

What is the Advantage of a Havurah?

Getting to know people in a larger congregation can be intimidating for some. A Havurah is an excellent way to become acquainted with others who have similar interests.

For years Valley Beth Shalom members (especially new members) have found that by joining a Havurah they have developed an extended family at VBS. Havurah members can be counted on to both celebrate lifecycle events together and when necessary, provide comfort and support during times of sadness, illness and loss.

What Kinds of Things does a Havurah Do?

It's up to you! Your group can enjoy a Shabbat dinner together, have a Hanukkah party, build a Sukkah, even go camping if you're so inclined. Each Havurah determines the types of activities it wants. Some involve children, some do not. You can ask one of our Rabbis to attend your monthly meeting to discuss a variety of topics related to Jewish life. The Havurah Steering committee and the program director are available to help with programming ideas. (See Ideas & Suggestions section).

How is a Havurah Formed?

After returning a completed Havurah application, you will be "matched up" with others who have similar interests, backgrounds and requests. At the first meeting of your new Havurah, a steering committee member will be there to help break the ice, to explain about how a Havurah functions and to give programming ideas.

What if I Don't Like Everyone in My Group?

In any group of that size, there may very well be one or two you can't seem to get to know. The best advice is to stick with it! You'll be surprised what can happen over time. Some of the Temple Havurot have been together for almost 20 years! If it's just not working out though, you can speak to the Program Director or steering committee member about your options.

How are New Members Added?

If your Havurah is in need of new members, call the Temple; you will be directed to the steering committee chairperson who will assist you. You may also personally invite any temple members to be part of your group. Kindly inform the steering committee chairperson of any changes in your Havurah.